“Lately, Life Has Been a Roller Coaster”
Do you ever have those periods of time when life is, well, crazy? When EVERYTHING hits the fan, deadlines are coming, stressors are numerous, money is constantly on your mind? When you’re trying to live life to the fullest, be a great man, attend to your responsibilities and give everything your all? I’ve had a few straight months of living like that. Where life wouldn’t seem to slow down, and you’re always looking ahead to see if there’s an oxygen break coming soon.
Over the past two months specifically, I have been experiencing a lot. LOTS of uncertainty and unknown. Lately, life has been, as they say, a roller coaster. TrueManhood.com Blog has been the recipient of a serious amount of neglect from me, and to my passionate readers and daily-blog-followers, I apologize. I have some great stuff planned, that should be coming your way soon.
When life gets like this, I try to do a few things. For instance… when I have uncertainty, I tend to pray more. I try to listen harder to what God wants from me. I try really hard to be aware of what’s happening in my life, taking an objective view of what is going on and what it could possibly mean. I also tend to be better with money, realizing that only because we’ve been good with money when it’s fruitful and abundant can we make it when things are, let’s say, tighter. I try to spend as much time with my family as I can, when life gets crazy busy. The more time with them, the more focused I can be when I’m working – always remembering that work is work and home/family is home/family. To name a few.
If life is throwing high-heat, curve balls, screw balls and spit balls at you, call time out and gather yourself. Rely more on God. Listen to Him more. Step back for a moment and see what’s important and urgent. You’ll make clearer decisions, reduce your blood pressure and overall, be a better man. Oh yeah, did I mention that this sort of behavior is like working on growing in virtue?
TrueMan up!
Embracing Life
Still on vacation… had another experience I needed to blog about. This story is a simple one, yet it contains an incredible life lesson.
Last night, we had a shuttle driver take us from the water park to our resort. Stan showed up right on time, came around the vehicle to let us in and proceeded to very skillfully drive us through the night’s traffic. We began in small talk, and eventually began talking about life. Stan, a married man of many years, had moved to Florida some 15+ years ago with his wife. Just over a year ago, they moved to Orlando to find work. Stan had worked in construction, installing windows and doors, for many years. After losing his job, he took it upon himself to find more work, any work. With the Florida’s economic failings, building was way down and construction jobs weren’t available. As he told us about the tough times that he and his wife experienced, we experienced a side of Stan that I wish everyone could experience. Pure joy.
Stan exemplified joy. He was happy, pleasant, energetic and sincere. Stan spoke of the hardships of losing work in a way that told me that he knew that in order to live (to provide, to be a man) he needed to take whatever work came along. Being a shuttle driver isn’t glamorous, powerful or high-paying – it’s long hours, sometimes unrulely patrons and small wages. He was simply happy to have a job and knows that many others don’t. He knows he is truly blessed. Stan chose to look at his job as if the glass was not only half-full, but that it was overflowing. Stan told us about grabbing as much over time as he could, about the full benefits that his company offers and about how he wakes up each morning wanting to go to work, simply glad to have a paycheck.
The life lesson… live joy. Joy is a powerful tool. I’ve blogged about it before, but in a different context. Stan’s story shows us that no matter what the world throws at us, we can live a happy life. Stan knows that money and possessions are not what rules his life, but loving his wife and giving 100% at work is incredibly honorable and manly, and that dictates what he does in life. Stan shows us all that a TrueMan does what he has to, when he has to, no matter what, in order to live and provide.
Stan… the skies are blue for you, my friend. There will be great things for you in your future – stay positive, energetic and hardworking. Your wife is a lucky woman – keep treating her as your queen. Best of luck to you. I’m a better man after meeting you.
Man up!
