Superman Dates

I came across this video from BlueFishTV… funny stuff.

[youtube=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=efI-spY4vZ0]

This lighthearted approach to making a few jokes about dating brings up some good points:

1. Dating is difficult – I’m married and boy, am I glad I don’t have to date any more.  The pressure, the games, the awkwardness.  Yuck.  Everyone is looking for love, which is a good thing.  Just know that it’s hard for both parties.

2. The success/failure of the date is typically based on the behavior of the male – Ladies, a man should be out to find you, win you over and have you fall in love with him.  It’s a quest for men, so let them do it.  This does NOT mean that you should lower your standards.  If some guy “blew your head right off…”, you better walk away a little faster than she did.

3. Just because you’re “super” doesn’t mean that you’re good at dating – don’t expect miracles just because some guy is popular, handsome or powerful (in one way or another).  Being super doesn’t make you a good match or a good boyfriend and it won’t make you a good spouse either.

Man up!