You Can’t Fight Based on Fear
Over the years, in dealing with my addiction to pornography, I’ve realized some pretty profound things. Things about myself, about addiction, the pornography industry and how to overcome this incredible evil. [If you haven’t read through my 5 Step Plan to Overcoming an Addiction to Porn, please click HERE before you continue reading this post. – We’ll wait.] As you know, I liken this sin to a battle, an incredible fight that we enter into with evil. A man must enter into this fight aggressively in order to come out victorious. A thought I’ve had lately is that we can’t fight out of fear.
We can’t fight an addiction to porn (or any addiction) because we fear things – the fear of being caught, the fear of ruining a relationship, the fear of having to confess our sins (again), the fear of our work finding inappropriate material on their computer, 
the fear of failing, the fear of giving in to the temptation, etc. A soldier doesn’t go into battle fearful – he goes in confident in his training, his abilities and his leadership. He knows that because of the work he’s put in up to this point (the training), that he’ll prevail. He trusts his leadership to guide him through this tough time, quite possibly the hardest thing he’s ever done, or ever will do. We’re the same way, except here, our salvation is on the line.
Fight aggressively, fight with honor, fight for your life. Go into this battle knowing that you have God on your side, that you can accomplish all things through Him (Philippians 4:13) and that YOU WILL BE VICTORIOUS!
There is a fear that is healthy for us, in this battle… the fear of offending God. The use of pornography (and typically the sexual behavior that stems from its use) is sin – mortal sin. We greatly offend God; through our actions, we turn away from God’s love. We lose all trust in God. Sin is a real thing, a serious thing. Sin removes charity from our heart and separates us from God. Fearing the loss of salvation (by our choices and actions) is a healthy fear to have.
Man up!
Veteran’s Day 2009 – Thank a Vet Today
Veteran’s Day 2009 – Thank a vet today. It’s the least we can all do. I plan on making some phone calls and continuing to thank each and every soldier that I see in public. I have the privilege of working with soldiers, and knowing soldiers, and being close to soldiers. What you do for us is a great example of sacrifice and service. Our words of gratitude will never be enough.
Please check out these two videos. The first, from Applebee’s is very impressive. I encourage everyone to let a veteran or active duty member know about this deal. It’s the little things that go so far. I wish I could stand in front of our local restaurant and shake all the veteran’s hands. Maybe I’ll have to make a quick stop by there today. The second video is a compilation of some pictures of our awesome heroes. (Neither video are mine.)
